Whether alone or not, whether happy or in grief, by the end of the day we always have our moment with ourselves. People say, you need to find your soul mate to feel complete. I say, you need to find the path where you can evolve and be complete. We are not born complete, if we were, what was the point in living? Reggio once said:
“What you do every day is what you become. We become the environment we live in’’.
These words got stuck in my head for a long while.
Environments change us, they shape our cognition, perception. What we are in control of, is to choose what environment to live in.
Especially in grief, we cling to people, imaginary ideas in order not to let go of things which are not meant for us.
Our addictive behavior is the root of all suffering.
Animal instincts left us only partially, when it comes to addiction, obsession and passion we are all on the same page. Here comes one and only dilemma when environment, people stop bringing us joy what’s the best… let it go or hold on?
Somewhere Something Always Happens 
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