Segments of the Days to Come

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We seek the love we think is perfect for us. The moment we overcome our obsession is the moment we find the true love. Think about all the movies you watched, all the books you read, scenes that are still stuck in your mind and unconsciously shape the idea of a relationship you want or think is the best for you.

When I look around I see how people complain about their lives, their wives, husbands, friends, neighbors. And the question pops up….  Why are we disappointed? Why hope or expect?

If we go deep, we come to realize that it is our nature to fight things, to overcome challenges and by doing so we hope fulfillment will come. The truth is, it never does. We ourselves create our reality and see the people through our curve mirror, which sooner or later reflects the true colors of reality.

We tie ourselves to imaginary  people, emotions and idols that don’t exist. We do it so hard, we lose the real connections. But the reality is, it’s not the people we want it’s the imagination and perception we are addicted to that drugs us down. We stick around people hoping we will change them, people never change, unless they want to, unless they are ready to.

The best way to leave with yourself, (cause that’s the only person you are stuck with till the end of your life), is to find your own episodes, to create your own stories and live the life you create and fight for every single day. When you find your own self, right people appear. We come to realize, it’s not what we want it’s what we really need. When you let go of obsessions and imaginary perceptions the real glory comes, the true self unveils and finds soulmates, the ones that will stick around even if there is no reason to, with whom we share our hopes dreams and create our own reality.

3 responses to “Segments of the Days to Come”

  1. businessinrhyme Avatar

    An eye-opening post and a great reminder. Thanks for sharing.

    1. smantarlyan Avatar

      Thank you very much! Glad you find it worthwhile.

      1. businessinrhyme Avatar

        You are welcome 🙂

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